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15 November 2011 @ 05:41 pm
A Friends Cut is coming to a theater near you.  
Yep, it’s the time of the year again. I think once a year it’s just necessary to update the flist and get rid of dead journals and communities as well as ppl I just don’t click with anymore.

In case you get cut, please know it’s not personal. Cause really, how could it be personal when we don’t really talk anymore or hardly know anything of each other?

So yeah, just wanted to give you guys a little heads up b/c I always feel kinda bad just cutting ppl without telling them before.

Take care.
xoxo
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Arabian: Deanarabian on November 15th, 2011 05:03 pm (UTC)
In case you get cut, please know it’s not personal. Cause really, how could it be personal when we don’t really talk anymore or hardly know anything of each other?

I don't know why, but this made me laugh, LOL!
tinkabell007tinkabell007 on November 15th, 2011 05:05 pm (UTC)
Well, but I guess it's kinda true, isn't it? *g* Cause how could a reason be personal when I don't really know the person anymore.
Arabian: Sheldon Cooper01arabian on November 15th, 2011 05:11 pm (UTC)
No, exactly. It's totally true. If you don't make an effort to stay in that person's lj-life (even if you don't share that many of the same interests), then why should it matter? It's really not personal, if anything it's anti-personal. I just like how you phrased it.
tinkabell007: TBBT - Sheldon - mhmmtinkabell007 on November 15th, 2011 05:19 pm (UTC)
Heh. Yeah, you're right 100%. It's sad that some ppl feel offended when they get cut, even though they haven't talked to the person in ages. *sigh* But as soon as they get cut they feel like they are losing the best friendship they (n)ever had.

Oh and on a more shallow note... I like your grumpy Sheldon icon *g* This guy is just too precious for this world.
Arabian: Sheldon Cooper02 - Luminous Fisharabian on November 15th, 2011 07:23 pm (UTC)
I adore me some Sheldon! :)

I admit when I get randomly cut, I have an emo moment because WAH!NOBODY LOVES ME!, then I shrug and defriend them back. :)
tinkabell007: vm - Logan walltinkabell007 on November 16th, 2011 12:46 am (UTC)
I admit when I get randomly cut, I have an emo moment because WAH!NOBODY LOVES ME!, then I shrug and defriend them back. :)

Oh I sooo hear ya. :) I feel the same. That's why I always try to give a little heads-up before I do some flist cutting.
dolnmoondolnmoon on November 15th, 2011 05:27 pm (UTC)
I kinda need to do a friends cut too.. there are dead journals on my flist too. Sigh I just hate to take the time. lol I just delete peeps as needed.. lol
tinkabell007tinkabell007 on November 15th, 2011 06:05 pm (UTC)
I try to do it at least once a year (usually around fall time) Otherweise I'm just always too lazy to go and delete ppl from here (unless they give me a very good reason sooner)
dolnmoondolnmoon on November 15th, 2011 08:21 pm (UTC)
lol instead of spring cleaning you do fall clear out. lol

hugs
Lillilisullivan on November 15th, 2011 05:52 pm (UTC)
Hey you!

Just a quick hello to tell you that i wish you the best for the future.
I'm happy i met you through Veronica Mars, it was fun reading and commenting your LJ.
Don't worry i don't take it personally, i always tell myself i need to update my LJ and fail miserably all the time. RL seems to get in the way. Maybe one day i'll get back to LJ, but in the meantime.... all the best!
tinkabell007tinkabell007 on November 15th, 2011 06:07 pm (UTC)
Hello :-)

Thank you!! I also wish you all the best for your future :-) It was a fun time we had during our epic Veronica Mars years and I hope that maybe some day we'll find our way back to each other on LJ :-)

So, until then, have a great life, hon :-)
Jenniferdaydreamer1984 on November 15th, 2011 06:03 pm (UTC)
I feel one coming on myself!
tinkabell007tinkabell007 on November 15th, 2011 06:09 pm (UTC)
I try to do it at least once a year, at around the same time. It's kinda sad that there are always so many ppl we kinda "lose" in our LJ life. But sometimes it's just not avoidable to cut ppl.
Lenaalena2b on November 15th, 2011 06:21 pm (UTC)
Just checking the top situation. LOL. OK..still mutual. HEHE
tinkabell007tinkabell007 on November 15th, 2011 07:28 pm (UTC)
LOL Thank God.... we all know this could change suddenly, without a warning...!
Kat: BlueSteel Jaredkatwoman76 on November 15th, 2011 08:22 pm (UTC)
Since you never added me, you can't cut me anyway *sticks out tongue* ;)
tinkabell007tinkabell007 on November 19th, 2011 12:28 am (UTC)
Heh. Ture that.
Kristin: Jared » Comic Con '09kristypadalecki on November 15th, 2011 08:49 pm (UTC)
I hope you'll keep me around. :)
tinkabell007tinkabell007 on November 19th, 2011 12:28 am (UTC)
Of course :)
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tinkabell007tinkabell007 on November 19th, 2011 12:31 am (UTC)
Haha... yeah, for NOW. Who knows what will happen next week?! Oh hell... who am I kidding? *g* You came here to stay. *g* And don't worry, I know you've quite a lot of stuff on your "real life plate" Plus, like you've pointed out, with all the social networks out there it's not possible to keep up2date with everyone and everything.
Shane: [VM] chillin' like a villainhavemy_heart on November 15th, 2011 11:01 pm (UTC)
I hope you keep me around!
tinkabell007: vm - groovytinkabell007 on November 19th, 2011 12:34 am (UTC)
You're all safe. Don't worry :-))
michelle: Alexis Bledelcertainthings on November 15th, 2011 11:03 pm (UTC)
I appreciate the heads up. *braces for impact*
tinkabell007tinkabell007 on November 19th, 2011 12:36 am (UTC)
Now that was some unnecessary bracing you did there *g*
michellecertainthings on November 19th, 2011 12:50 am (UTC)
You never know
Charly: Tommy winkcharly2004 on November 15th, 2011 11:21 pm (UTC)
Not leaving :P *sitzstreik*
;P
tinkabell007tinkabell007 on November 19th, 2011 12:38 am (UTC)
Ach gott... immer diese Sitzstreikler.... na gut, bleibste halt hier... lol

*knuff* :)
Griva: OT boatgriva_x on November 16th, 2011 07:40 pm (UTC)
Hmmm...I dunno where all those people from my f-list has gone invisible...bu my certainly is not yet a dead journal...though I don't post as nearly often as I want to...
tinkabell007tinkabell007 on November 19th, 2011 12:45 am (UTC)
IKR? It got a bit more quiet on LJ the last couple of months. I guess with so many other social networks out there it's not always easy to keep up with everything.

And yeah, I know you don't post that often, but when you post I enjoy the posts. Plus we share quite some opinions, so there is no way I'm gonna cut you.